Enjoy the Silence

It is day two at the ashram, I can hardly believe it is even the same week. Yesterday was so packed with new faces and names and experiences and information and seated cross-legged position.

We are silent from lights out (a 10 pm) until our morning Hatha yoga has ended around 8 am. It’s less of a challenge than those who know me well might expect. I am finding a lot of comfort in the silence and though meditation is hard as all get out for me, I am working really hard to quiet my bouncy mind for thirty minutes twice a day.

The vegetarian diet is no sweat, but we only eat at the three main meals – I am a snacker and a dessert-devotee so that’s a little tough for me.  Like right now I am thinking about my homemade chocolate chip cookies fresh out of the oven. Being coffee free’s fine and I am surprisingly not missing the alcohol.

When I look ahead and remember that there are still 26 days to meet and conquer, it’s a more than a bit daunting, but one foot in front of the other, one sun salutation after the last…I’ll make it.

Downdog Days Ahead

Adios muchachos!

In a couple hours I head down to the ashram that will be my home for the next four weeks. I plan to post updates hear about what it’s like to spend my days meditating and bending and then sitting in a classroom for 7 hours picking apart yoga poses.

If you miss my voice remember to listen to Tell’s weekly podcast (available on iTunes and updated every Wednesday).

Namaste, pals!

Back to the Future

I’m back in Fredericksburg for just under two weeks. Enough time to host Tell, catch up with friends, eat ice cream, and let my blisters heal before I ship off to Buckingham, Virginia to live at the Satchidananda Ashram (Yogaville) for a month.

There is still about half the summer left, but I booked the heck out of these two months and in some ways it already feels like it’s over. Not that I am complaining…this year was a zinger and I was tempted beyond measure to spend as many of my waking hours as possible prostrate on my couch with an adult beverage in my drinking hand. But Matt planned this phenomenal adventure vacation and I finally got around to going for the yoga instructor certification I’ve wondered out load about for years. This is the summer of doing.

I’m getting mighty nervous about the intensity that awaits meet at Yogaville next week – 5:30 wake-up calls and a scant hour or so of free time between then and lights out at 10 pm.  I know I can handle it though because I hiked the effing Camino. (Do you think I’ll get my indulgence revoked for placing “effing” before “Camino”?)

While we walked I authored dozens of essays on the experience in my head that I intended to post here, but for now I’ll just give an overview.

We started walking  on June 28 and the whole world opened up. A world of how incredibly powerful my body is – how strong we are to keep putting those feet to the ground, one in front of the other no matter how sore or exhausted or defeated we may feel. And that each small foot fall added up, finally to 200 miles across part of Northern Spain. No matter how high the day’s elevation was or how terrible my busted knee felt, or how everyday seemed like the hardest part of the journey – we kept moving.

We made it to Santiago and literally hobbled up to the cathedral. I found the end of that leg of our journey pretty disappointing. On the Camino (especially on the Primitive Way) you are relatively along save for this community of fellow pilgrims struggling and celebrating with you each day. Then suddenly you’re in a city, with mobs of tourists circling around the cathedral in matching t-shirts, passing residents who see pilgrims like you limp down their streets every single day. It’s not as though Santiago isn’t a warm and welcoming city, it was just terribly jarring.

We did reconnect with many of the friends we’d collected along the way – except for our oldest and favorites – a group from Valencia who shared our first isolated, moldy Camino digs with us. Our affection for them is proof that shared language is not essential in creating a meaningful connection. They were so patient with our terrible Spanish and so generous with their food.

After a day of rest, we started walking again…the last 90 km to the Atlanic ocean. We hiked with our friend, Robin, a Camino acquisition, then with a JMU sophomore we met over lunch at a bar. We parted with him a few towns before our Fisterra (end of earth” and our final destination) so were able to end out journey as we started it: just the two of us.

In Fisterra, we found a quite beach and let the freezing waves of the Atlantic wash over our bare, blistered feet. There in the sand, holding Matt’s hand I found the end I wanted. The trip played through my mind like this slideshow, set, of course, to the song Waka Waka – so I naturally when I got home, I made a slideshow, set to Waka Waka. Click the image below to view.


Year One

This is a bit excessive, I am sure of it. After all, I made a year in pictures at the end of 2009 and if you compared it to this one, I bet there you’ll find there wasn’t a whole lot added to the end. But, I am thrilled about the life I’ve legally established with Matt and even though we’d spent 6 years of our lives together before our nuptials, there is obviously something significant of being made an honest woman.

In our vows we both swore to climb more mountains and go to more places…we’ll be doing both in just a few days when we strap three weeks worth of a life on our backs and hike across Spain.  We’re acutely aware of the closing window on this type of vacation, though we don’t have immediate bun-in-the-oven plans, the thought of introducing a non-furry addition to our family is being discussed with more earnestness than before…especially as we’ll both enter our fourth decade at the end of the year (WTF?).

So here, set to our favorite New Pornographers’ song, are the highlights of our first year of marriage (click on the picture to view).

Tim’s Mart, You’ve Got My Heart

A few weeks ago, I satisfied a decade’s long fantasy by boldly walking solo into the Fredericksburg’s infamous Tim’s Mart.

Check out that sweet Air Jordan sweatshirt...I bet you could pull a profit on eBay.

Everyone thinks Tim’s Mart is some sort of front. How else could we explain it’s survival, for so long, when the displays have not changed since I was potty trained? I am totally intimidated and freaking fascinated with the place. It has been an obsession of mine which recently morphed into a conviction that one day I would enter Tim’s Mart.

That day finally came two weekends ago when I entered, browsed and made purchases from Tim’s Mart. I even met Tim, he is an older Chinese gentleman who’s owned and operated the shop for the last 30+ years.

I call the one in the middle "The Bea Arthur".

The place is frozen in time – that time being somewhere between 1986 and 1992, with some earlier influences sprinkled throughout.

It is dank and dusty and bits of it are falling apart – the top floor is completely empty (an inaccessible) due to water damage, but there are genuine treasures throughout the store and not just ironic ones…if you are in need of some dress pants, fellas, I am pretty certain they have your size, and once you’ve run them through the wash once or twice with a healthy addition of vinegar, I am confident that “grandpa’s sub-basement” smell will disappear.

I strongly urge everyone I who reads this to make their way to Tim’s Mart…be advised that Tim has a strict NO REFUNDS policy, but if you happen to buy something (like a pair of cute heels) which fall apart the minute you put them on, Tim will gladly allow you an exchange – perhaps for something more practical like the $14 worth of friendship bracelets.


I really should have offered one to Tim.

I replied with: Tears are coming out of my face

I checked my school email this morning to make sure I didn’t get an angry email telling me that I’d incorrectly exported my grades for report cards. Instead I found this:

Dear Mrs. Schneider,

Thank you so much for being my teacher this year. I would like to say thank you because you were a FANTASTIC teacher. Your class was so much fun to be in because you always made “Boring-Old-Civics” into “YAAAAAY, ITS CIVICS TIME!” You were also a close friend to me this year and I hope that you have a tremendous summer!

Sincerely,

Civics Nerd; AKA [student name] (:

PS: I look forward to seeing you in 2 years when my younger sister joins your class.

Thanks again!

This year was particularly hard. It brought me dangerously close to burn out. I can’t tell you how touching it was to hear I mattered to this kid.

Camino Countdown: Twenty Days

In 18 days we’ll board a plane for Spain (as long as it doesn’t rain). In 19 days we’ll arrive in Oviedo. In 20 days we’ll start walking and we won’t stop for two weeks. This is the most ambitious and least restful trip we have ever dared. We’re taking the Northern Route and we have not been able to find a guidebook for it. So Matt researched and made spreadsheets and maps and we are winging the heck out of this half a month excursion.

We’ve backpacked before, but only for three straight days. We hike a lot and are avid gym-philes but it’s true that no amount of day-hiking or stair-climbing can hope to truly prepare us for the challenge waiting for us across the Atlantic.

We’re trying though. On Memorial Day we weighted our day packs to 15 pounds (a bit less than we plan on lugging) and headed to Shenandoah for a 10 mile circuit. We were feeling pretty smug because we parked at the packed Old Rag lot but went to a different – completely deserted – trail head.

It was really, really hot so when we felt a couple raindrops we celebrated but within the half-hour we were hiking underneath a full-fledged deluge. NOTHING on us was dry. But, like troopers (or like people who stuck in exactly the middle of a trial) we walked on. And that is our basic plan for the trip: just keep walking.

By popular request!… See our general path here. We arrive in Oviedo but will take bus to Pola de Allande so that we have time to do the walk to the ocean.